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February 3, 2008 Dear family and friends –
As I sit in our cozy Berlin living room, flames rising in the fireplace, a beautiful blue sky out the window, Sunday strollers walking by the window, it is time to let you know what we are up to next year.
About a week ago Nancy and I gave notice to our schools that we are leaving at the end of this year. It was, as many of you know, a very difficult decision. We have really enjoyed our time in Berlin, and both our schools let us know they would like us to remain. But we came with the intent of only staying 2 years (can it already be 19 months?), and it feels like time to return. Among other things, we miss the closeness to family and long-time friends. We’ve made some great friends over here, friends we want to keep for rest of our lives. But many people are moving, and those expatriate friendships would be changing in any case. One of the things we learned very early in this adventure was how important good friendships and family are to us. (Surprise? No.)
Both of us had learned a great deal about living in a new culture, adjusting to different expectations, rules and values. Some parts, like learning to like crowds, have been really fun; others, like dealing with stubborn bureaucracies, have been more ‘challenging.’
We’ve learned that we need to always take our apartment keys, even just to get the mail German doors lock automatically, and one forgotten key costs 100 Euro in locksmith fees.
We’ve learned that even students who seem like they know English miss subtleties of our jokes – lots of blank expressions.
We’ve learned to always have a ticket for the S Bahn. I forgot once last year and it cost 40 Euro to bail myself out.
We’ve learned to have backup plans for traveling – like when we got stranded in Budapest with Liz last spring.
We’ve learned that many things in German contracts are unstated because they assume you know.
We’ve learned that just when someone seems to not know English (like a taxi driver), they spent 2 years in England.
We’ve learned that not understanding what is going on around us (like sudden announcements on the train) usually doesn’t matter – unless the train suddenly stops, everyone gets off, and we don’t know why!
We’ve learned that German TV is better than CNN and BBC (only 2 English channels) – but we don’t get the jokes or story. But we’ve also learned that you don’t need to understand the language to get the humor in some old US sitcoms like “Home Improvement”.
We’ve learned that red brick mean “bike path” – and you walk on them at your own peril. But it’s great when you are the biker.
We’ve learned to expect the unexpected. Constantly …
Germany is in the midst of a long-term union conflict between the rail system and the Bahn drivers. The train/bus drivers want a 30% salary increase; the BVG is offering about 10%. Meanwhile, every month or so, the drivers stage spot strikes. Friday the U Bahn and busses in Berlin stopped for 36 hours – the S Bahn still worked, but that’s only about 30% of the network. So the roads got crowded, and the trains that were running were packed. Since we don’t rely on trains for transport to school (I am riding my bike every day; Nancy walks), it’s mostly just an inconvenience for us. Some teachers and students are really having a hard time getting to school. Not since the airline pilots went on strike in the late 60s in the US have we seen such a mess in transportation. And Germans really don’t strike very often.
Better yet – while the strike was going on, the BVG decided to also work on some of the train tracks, so even large parts of the S Bahn that were working were shut down yesterday for maintenance. It was really confusing getting around on Saturday. It’s taken 18 months to know the system well enough to negotiate all the weirdness – and it’s normally a really easy transportation system.
So … barring an offer from another international school which we can’t refuse … are headed back to Bellingham in the middle of July. Nancy’s school lets out July 2; I’m done June 20. We will need to get our shipment together and cleanup this apartment. Our house in Bellingham has a tenant until August 1, so we probably will take our time getting back to the US. Probably arrive around July 20 or so. In the mean time, I need to work on getting a job; Nancy is hoping to only work part time (depending on what the Washington State retirement system allows). We’ll be working on all the things needed to re-patriate (especially a car). Once we get back, we know there will be things we want to do to the house, so it should be a pretty busy August.
Despite all the hassle of moving, we look forward to being back in Bellingham. We’ve met people from all over who have said, “The Northwest is the most beautiful place I’ve ever visited.” And we get to live there.
January 08 http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=57oyl778.49gcb808&x=0&y=-x2dnah We really appreciate the nice feedback so many have sent about our pictures. We love sharing them; it feels like we can be there with you.
Our thanks to Craig and Carol Rossiter for suggesting a trip to Salzburg. It's touristy (of course, we were some of those tourists), but it's also one of the loveliest places we've seen, and very friendly. Understanding Austrian German was a challenge.
We're now back in Berlin, preparing for school to start. It's cold here, too - well below zero celsius. But not much snow.
All our love, David and Nancy
- Nancy and David
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=57oyl778.bt1k3xwo&x=0&y=-6q2b00 Be glad: We took a lot more pictures. But I hope these give you the idea of how wonderful and wondrous it was to have family here for Christmas. We essentially circumnavigated Germany by train and car.
- Nancy and David
Dear friends and family,
We are in Munich with Francesca, Kevin, Liz, and her friend Kelly. It’s a been a marvelous visit and exploration. After Christmas in Berlin, we took the train (5 hours) to Baden-Baden, where we hired a driver to take us to Alsace, France for wine tasting. Yesterday, we drove about 4 hours to Neuschwanstein castle – the incredibly Disney-esque Bavarien castle you often see in pictures. Kevin and I got to drive the autobahn – at over 180 km per hour. Trust me, you pay close attention to everything at those speeds.
Today we wander Munich and spend what precious time we can with our family. Pictures will be coming soon, but I attached a short video which was originally meant for Grandmother Jeannette. Video
To whomever said that we'd have "adventures" during this time teaching in Germany and Europe: we had no idea! There have been so many ups and downs, so many new discoveries about ourselves and the world, from being burglarized to having all the trips you've read about. It's not always been easy here, but it's always been worth it. And vacations like this make a glad to be here.
We wish you the Happiest of New Years, and hope to see you before long.
David and Nancy Fayram
Berlin
December
Dear friends and family – If you have moment, please enjoy this rather strange Christmas ad from Rail Europe. It’s 30 seconds well-spent. Francesca, Kevin, Liz and her friend Kelly arrive tomorrow (Saturday), and we can hardly wait to show our children what life is like here. Germany knows how to do Christmas in classy ways, but we still miss the US version.
HOLIDAY GREETINGS COURTESY OF RAIL EUROPE Click below and then scroll down to click on a country. Be sure to turn up the sound. Be sure to view them all!
http://downloads.raileurope.com/holidayCard/06_christmas_card.html Europeans have a great sense of humor!
Nancy and I spent Saturday at the Berlin-Munich soccer match, one of the biggest of the year. A good friend took the attached picture – we were thoroughly ready to watch a good match, and we were not disappointed. 74,000 fans.

Dear family and friends, I have refined the video we took of the Weihnachtmarkten on Saturday, and added another video clip of a market we went to on Sunday. I hope I am not overloading you, but these are definitely a highlight of December in Berlin. Another is this … on Wednesday Nancy sings with a large choir in an Advent service at the Berliner Dom, one of the oldest churches in Berlin. It is a huge affair, attended by hundreds and with VIPs from embassies and business. I am getting a good seat by ushering. To see the video, click on the following links. They should play on Windows Media player. I cut Saturday’s clip down to about 5 minutes. The Sunday clip is much shorter, only about 2 minutes. Saturday - http://www.mydeo.com/videorequest.asp?XID=14281&CID=146794 Sunday - http://www.mydeo.com/videorequest.asp?XID=5525&CID=146782 I’d love feedback about whether you are able to view these – this is some of my first attempt at sending video. Thanks. All the best, David
November http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=57oyl778.75ohwu80&x=0&y=-guc2rb Dear family and friends, We spent the last part of Thanksgiving weekend in Venice, a 2.5 hour flight (but 7 hours with delays due to fog). Nancy has wanted to take David since she went with Francesca in 2000. Venice is the kind of place where David thought, "I've seen this in so many pictures, I think I've been here." But there are always pleasant surprises, like the taste of Venetian coffee or the sound of bells ringing over San Marcos square.
For more, go to the YouTube video - just copy and paste this link into your browser:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSuJ2RrzRS0
Be patient in the downloading - but it's 5 minutes we hope you enjoy.
All our best wishes for an expectant Advent, David and Nancy
- Nancy and David
Just when we think we’ve seen it all and done it all in Berlin, this city of over 4.5 million people does something unexpected.
Small world story 1:
On a lovely late summer afternoon last September, we got off the S Bahn near the Brandenburg Gate, and walked smack into the middle of a massive protest rally. We had no idea what the thousands were protesting, but it was fun to watch the mix of ex-hippies and Gothic types. Later that day, we saw the throngs (accompanied by hundreds of fully stocked polizei) marching up Unter den Linden, a major thoroughfare in the center of Berlin. Last week my mother sent a copy of a news story from the Christian Science Monitor – it was about a major protest march in Sept in Berlin! The protest was against new German efforts to monitor the internet for terrorist activity – a’la GW Bush. (What a strange way to find out how close we came to one of the biggest protest marches all year in Germany.)
Small world story 2:
Tonight we went to an acrobatic/comedy/vaudeville show in Berlin called “Soap” – acrobats, singers and comedians doing all kinds of strange things in bathtubs. It was kind of dinner theater, and sitting at our table was a couple from Sweden. He is a political reporter for the Swedish version of the BBC. He and his wife were recently in the US, covering the Swedish Prime Minister’s visit to D.C. and California (yes, they met with Arnold Schwarzenegger). As a side trip, Eric and Christiana went to Vancouver, BC, to visit friends. While there, the friends got them down to the US to buy clothing – at the outlet mall just outside Bellingham!
It’s only November 10, but today we got our first significant snow fall. The Berlin skies opened up with huge white flakes. Even stranger, in the midst of the snow fall we had a pretty good lightening/thunder storm! Snow looks different than rain when lightening is going off – it’s brighter; and the thunder is loud, but quickly muffled by the snow. Very strange mix.
I have managed to ride my bike to school everyday this year so far – it’s only 17 minutes. But if the weather continues this way, that could become a challenge. It’s a big change from the mild winter we had last year, but it’s fun to experience all that Berlin has to throw at us.
We hope you are having a wonderful fall.
David
October Dear family and friends, Our October vacation took us to Riccione, Italy, on the Adriatic, for a week. David rode 300 miles, and Nancy got in around 100. We rode through the Appenines, with views that would have stopped our breath if we had any after climbing some of these 5 km hills. Most gradients were 8%, but they got steeper. It was all so ... Italian. Kodakgallery.com Slideshow
- Nancy and David
September Well, life is good except for the colds which Nancy and I got in the first 2 weeks and still hangs on. Students at JFK School keep asking to join Nancy’s class – she has become a popular arts teacher, and they actually have to turn students away. David has found a niche, also, in the Middle School at Berlin Brandenburg IS. He learned a lot last year about the IB and European history, but it was a bit stressful having 8 preps to prepare for each week (13 new lessons every week). This year he has only grade 7 and 8 (3 sections of each) and a homeroom, and he is enjoying working with Middle Schoolers again after 8 years away from them. The big difference between MS students here and in the states is that here the students actually do the work. Of course, they are still Middle Schoolers, whether the parent is a migrant worker or an ambassador – full of energy, impulsive, and random – but MS students at both JFK and BBIS see the value of education because their parents are so highly trained. We have settled nicely into our new flat, and we even held a pretty big party for David’s birthday. Actually, it was a double party. A counselor from JFK also had her birthday August 27, so the party was a combination of friends. And that is really about it for now. We haven’t traveled much since the last group of photos we sent out. In some ways, it is the start of a school year in much the same way as many other starts-to-school-years. Except, here we are still in Germany. The biggest decision Nancy and I have is what to do next year. If we stay here, we have several thousand Euro in back taxes: JFK teachers don’t pay taxes if they only stay 2 years because of an agreement with the US government. However, if they stay more than 2 years, by even one day, they owe all the back taxes. 2 years at 30+% … you do the math. At the same time, we feel like we are just beginning to get the hang of living here, and we are actually making friends with Germans. At the same time, we still do miss all our good friends and family in the States, and we look forward to getting back into the life of the Northwest. Though we hope to not use cars as much as we used to. But we keep realizing that the Northwest really is one of the best places on the planet to live. It’s a tough decision. So for now, from the start of a year on the other side of the planet, we wish you all the best for a lovely fall. David June Dear family and friends, After a year in a basically nice apartment, we’ve decided it’s time to upgrade. The current flat has great light, good space (except that it’s not all usable), and is close to the S Bahn and video store. But it is very noisy since it is right next to a major boulevard (Berliner Strasse). Now that it is very warm (30 degrees C / 86 plus F), we need windows open all the time, and the traffic and music-playing-neighbors are cutting into our sleep. We’ll write about what it’s like to move here – a bit like getting a pardon from prison: we have to de-register and re-register with the police! But after we move. If you write, start using our new address (which is below). The street can be spelled Tu (with an umlaut-2 dots) or Tueksteinweg (with the e replacing the umlaut). The postal code and phones remain the same. We are soooo looking forward to our visit to the Northwest and Santa Barbara. Only 9 days to go. We think of you often, and wish you the best. David Fayram Moving to: Türksteinweg 41 14169 Berlin
May We had dinner with John and Kathy Whitmer tonight. They arrived safely this afternoon, and their son picked them up at the airport and installed them at their hotel. After dinner we left them as they went to an orchestra concert. They are great travelers! I'd heard about Mounts, but until John told me this evening it hadn't even sunk in. I kept picturing being able to stop there the morning of the 30th and have coffee - with Bob (I do miss him, and have a hard time coming to grips with the idea he won't be there). All of my images are shifting faster than I can keep up. It's very distressing.
Then John told me about Toad Mt, and I felt really disoriented.
Is anyone ever stopping in Ferndale on the Donut anymore? If so, where? Are you reduced to Starbucks? (I was afraid that was coming.)
I'm CC'ing this to Alex Brede, because I figure if anyone knows where and when I can have coffee now, he can tell me. -- Right, Alex?
And for any other riders who are interested ... I'm excited to see people Saturday morning, June 30. I had planned to just ride to Ferndale, have coffee, then ride back to Bellingham to catch the Birch Bay crowd when they go for coffee later. Not that I am that hooked on coffee, but I want to have as much time with friends as possible in the short time I'll have there. In fact, Berliners are as hooked on coffee as anyplace in the Northwest. There are Starbucks all over the place, as well as Balzac Coffee (a German equivalent), and numerous small coffee shops. But there aren't drive-throughs (fewer cars), and an eiscafe (iced coffee) is actually coffee with a scoop of ice cream in it. Berliners are crazy for ice cream.
My thoughts are the same as yours - I leave the country, and the best coffee places close down. Sorry. I didn't know I had that great an economic impact.
April Spring has arrived full on in Berlin. We’ve had almost 4 weeks of absolutely gorgeous weather, though I’m told by Berliners that it normally rains quite a bit in April – showers, sun, showers, sun – much like the Northwest. Global warming is apparently good for northern Europe.
And I am in awe of German cyclists. I ride to school about 4 days a week (it’s only 5 miles on flat roads), and there are at least 10 riders in every block on the way there. More amazingly, 50 year old women ride in skirts and high heals on platform pedals, and it’s all I can do to catch up to them. They are strong! Kids, laborers, businessmen, moms (with 2 kids on the bike and towing a trailer of groceries) – ½ this city rides.
The other day I left school, and within a mile a teenage boy caught me. In my competitive mode I picked my pace up to see if he could stay with me. Not only did he stay, but I finally let him pass, and I drafted him. We were doing almost 20 mph – over the sidewalk, across cobbles, around pedestrians, over dirt. And he was on a clunky mountain bike with fat tires and platform pedals. I couldn’t believe how fast we were going. He just kept ringing his bell (all bikes must have them) and whistling at anyone who got in our way. I finally gave up – I was not warmed up, and my lungs shredded under the pressure. I also didn’t want to kill myself or a pedestrian. The kid loved it!
Monday, 23 April, I rode the 7 miles up to the city, and through the city to the main train station to meet Nancy. Because of the bike lanes and huge numbers of riders, I felt safer riding in the heart of Berlin that I often do on country roads in Whatcom County. Certainly safer than riding through Bellingham! It had been a dream all winter to ride into the city. It was so cool to finally be there. I kept laughing as I rode with all the commuters.
The next goal is to train with some of the groups of riders around here. The forest Grunewald has enormous numbers of riders, rollerbladers and runners. Most riders are training alone, but Saturdays and Sundays seem to have several group rides. I know they are going to be screaming fast, so I’m getting the courage (and time) up to join in. We are traveling a lot on weekends right now, so it hasn’t been possible, but it’s going to happen soon.
All our best to you and everyone we miss so much.
David
Nancy and I took our first bike tour, now that spring has hit. We went north by train to the island of Rugen, next to the Baltic Sea. We arrived late, though – 8:00 p.m., and had to hussle to make the 12 miles to our B & B. As it was, it got very dark, overcast, and even rained a bit. Then we hit the cobblestones. And these weren’t smooth and well maintained. We were in an area with little car traffic, so the cobbles probably hadn’t been replaced for many, many years. Nothing rattles the bones like cobbles at night.
Nevertheless, Rugen (and the village of Lohme) is the most relaxing place we’ve been on this adventure. Quiet fishing village along some wonderful hiking trails and chalk cliffs (like Dover in England). I took off for a ride to the town of Sassnitz, and, wanting to avoid some traffic, I took an old road (alte weg) through the national forest. Four more miles of very old cobbles and packed mud. The Wednesday night crowd would love this area! Wish I could have had you all with me. (Photos Here at bottom of photopage)
We plan to do much more riding now that spring is fully here. Drivers are polite, and there is a lot to explore by bike
On Saturday, February 18, 3 of us in Berlin gathered for the first time in weeks to enjoy the sun and ride in Bob Lindquist’s honor. Before we started, I told Eric and Andy stories of Bob and how much he touched the lives of riders in the Northwest. They were respectful and touched. Bob would have loved the ride through a massive park called the Grunewald.
All my best to those who honor Bob as I do.
David Fayram
January Fellow bikies –
Where else can you find middle aged, smoking, beer-drinking, overweight sports fans watching a bicycle race than at the Berlin 6 Days? 50,000 people showed up at the Berlin Velodrome Sunday, January 28, "family day" to watch racing from 10:00 until 6:00. The beer drinking and smoking started at 10:00. The pro racers started at 12:00 after 2 sets of junior races.
My apologies to those who don't know the terms, but you can check with those who do:In one day, we saw 3 Madison races (2 were over 45 minutes long), 2 derny races (races behind motorcycles – 40+ mph), flying kilos run as a Madison (hand slings at 200 meters), a Madison miss-and-out (and another standard Devil), a keirin, and a couple of points races. This was all with the same riders over-and-over.
Names you might know: Andreas Kappas, Olaf Pollack, Robert Bartko (who lives only 5 miles from our flat), and a whole lot of names I hadn't known, but who hold world titles of some sort or another. 18 teams in all. 36 guys doing handslings for Madison racing!
I've attached pictures – such as they are. (Don't want to use a flash, and they are moving so darn fast.) It's hard to convey the smoke, the noise of the thousands of whistles being blown, the rumble of the motorbikes, the shear numbers of fans all bumping as they move around the displays outside the track area. Stadtler Sport, the largest bike shop in Europe (based in Berlin) was a main sponsor, so there was plenty of bike stuff to look at. How about a 4,900 Euro ($6,000) Trek?
The flying laps and kilos were astounding – when they did kilos with Madison slings, they hit 65 kph! I can't even begin to guess how fast they were going behind the motors; all I know is that every bike had to have special stabilizers to keep the shimmy down because they went so fast.
I seriously doubt the Vancouver track could ever bypass all the environmental laws that had to be bent to get that much exhaust into the arena.
Our time in Berlin goes well, and while not all days are quite as astounding as this, there is never a lack of things to do in the little free time we have. And we miss you all! photos
December 29 Quick note - still on goofy arabic keys - We did Marrakesh on Thursday - most exotic and convoluted city we have ever seen. You dicker for everything - even cost of toilette use. Pix and longer narrative coming after we return to Berlin. Spending New Years eve hear in Agadir: Interesting to see Christmas decorations up on streets as Muslims bow to pray toward Mecca. Happy New Year. David & Nancy
December 26- We are in Morocco - this is a Arabic keyboard - all backwards & squiggly. Short msg - Agadir is a resort - not much traditional (in 1960 an earthquake wiped out the city and it rebuilt as a resort area), but warm & restful; will call after the first. Odd to spend Xmas in a Muslim country, but they have a few decorations up anyway.
We went to Christmas eve service in Berlin - very much like home, but at 8pm, so we had a little sleep before taxi took us to airport at 4 am. Its 68 degrees and sunny here - and the people are the friendliest ever! We keep chnanging from, French to German to English:. Wish I knew Arabic.
We will send pix when wey get back to Berlin after Jan 1. We will be spending New Years eve at a Moroccan/German/French/English party - should be even stranger.
The hill overlooking the resort has a huge glowing sign. A staff member here said it says "Allah is lord of this nation" - or close to that. Men greet by brushing cheeks 3 times. Everyone puts hands together in prayer when saying thank you or apologizing. Hugs and arm-patting is everywhere. People on the street just wave & smile spontaneously. (Then we saw a taxi driver peeing by the side of the road - if you gotta go, you gotta go we figure.) Way friendlier than Berliners. Much like Hawaiians. Warmer climate, warmer to strangers? Anybody done the sociological study?
We hope to get to Marrakesh (about 3 hours north), but we have to find an English-speaking group. We came on a German package, and all the tours with that group are of course "auf Deutsche".
Liz - you would love the food - lots of veggies and low on fats, but great flavors!
We have thought a lot about family & friends this Advent. Being away makes us realize how excited we will be to see you again. We got our flights for this summer - in Seattle from June 23 for about a week. Might get up to Bham. We will let you know.
Here is the top row of this keyboard - just to let you know how hard this is: azertyuiop I can.t figure out how to use the Arabic characters - so I won;t. And the key directions are in French ... I think.
All our love and prayers: David
October 14, 2006
Friday the 13th never gets me – it’s always Saturday the 14th. Today I rode with my first German Century ride (by accident), crashed (also by accident), and got yelled at profusely in German (I assume he did it on purpose.
From the beginning – another teacher (Andy) and I were headed out for about 60 km to the southwest of where we live. Nice start, when suddenly we came across a massive organized ride. There had to be well over 1,000 riders. We found ourselves at the start area where groups of over 30 were starting off together. Pretty leisurely paces, so we passed several groups until one group decided to sit on our wheels at tempo (around 22 mph – not hard to do on Berlin’s well-maintained, flat roads). I’d heard several riders behind us commenting that Andy and I were speaking English – but I didn’t know the route well enough to drop back and start a conversation like we did when we went with the Sunday group a few weeks ago.
After about 8 miles, the ride took them right, and we needed to go left. Several of the Germans started yelling, “Rechts! Rechts!” (right) to us, and all we could do was wave. Oh, how I wish I hadn’t had to get home sooner so that we could have joined the ride officially. I had the Euro. But not the time.
Several miles later, Andy took me onto a pretty busy highway, where a car pulling a trailer drove next to us for quite a while as the driver yelled at us in German. Nice thing about getting yelled at in a language you don’t fully understand is that it is not nearly as upsetting. We got off the highway a.s.a.p. nevertheless.
Then, when we were only a few miles from home, we had to ride the sidewalk (bike paths are everywhere on the sidewalks – they have their own lanes). Andy decided to cut back down a driveway toward the street, and I turned as well. But he turned a bit too sharply, so I hit my rear brake a bit, and my rear tire found just enough sand (from the cobble-stones we were on) that I slid out and whacked my head. Got a stiff neck today, but otherwise no serious damage.
I love bike adventures, but I’m hoping that they are a bit more civilized after this.
We did ride along the Havel River for a few miles. It was the loveliest country we’ve ridden through in this area – trees, parks, water views, quiet roads. Still not as amazing as Chuckanut Drive, though. The more I travel, the more I realize that the Northwest is one of the most beautiful areas in the world.
I’ll try to take a camera next time to send along photos of the ride terrain and scenery.
The photo I’ve sent is of Prague in the Czech Republic where we spent last week on a school holiday. Not much riding there – all cobblestone streets and very steep hills. But not bad sight seeing. Keep well. David Fayram Power corrupts. Absolute power ... is kinda neat.
Sunday September 17 Dear cycling buds, I just got back from my first ride with a group here in Berlin. Riders usually train alone, apparently, but every Sunday a group of 30-50 do anywhere from 80-120 km. Today was 80, fortunately, since I have only had a couple of rides in the last 2 months. We averaged 21 mph. Granted, the roads around here are as flat as Skagit, but there is always a pretty good wind. Unfortunately, I really have no idea where we rode, so it will be hard to duplicate. Berlin doesn’t have an ocean or mountains for reference. It is very easy to get completely disoriented. I’m still trying to find the names of villages we rode through on a map – Sputendorf, Großbeeren, Großmachnow, Lichterfelde. But the small ones are really hard to find.
The roads south of here, where we rode, are either tree-lined, with great arching oaks or maples, or they are out in fields of wheat or sunflowers, or they are through picturesque villages with ponds. And all around are loads of Roundabouts. This is so European!
The man I rode with most of the time, Junge, said that occasionally he rides with Jens Voight – and then it really gets going fast.
I miss the donut crowd and our good stories, but this will certainly do for now.
Keep well. David Fayram
Saturday, September 2, 2006 Dear family, friends and colleagues,
School is well and truly underway in Berlin. Most public schools started over 2 weeks ago, Berlin Brandenburg Intern. School [my school] started Thursday the 24th, and Nancy’s started Monday the 28th. Apparently, until only 10 years ago, some German schools started in April and others in the fall. The country only recently standardized start dates. Welcome to the way *many* things work around here.
I don’t want to make this sound like a lecture in international schooling or a sales pitch for BBIS, but I want to share with you what my school is like. (I want Nancy to write about hers herself, so I won’t say much here.) Also, I have been learning a lot of new vocabulary (call it I.B.-speak or International Baccalaureate), so my apologies if it comes in to the email – it’s accurate.
BBIS has grown from 420 students last year to 490 this year. K-12. It doesn’t sound like a lot, but it’s stretching some resources. They began renovation on one building last year, but discovered that the roof was rotten, so we are making do with classroom space from last year. One woman I know has to travel to 10 different rooms throughout the week. I am fortunate to be in one room most of the time – though it is very small and only get ventilation if I open a window which looks onto the elementary school playground, with very noisy small kids.
For those who don’t know, the BBIS buildings were originally built by Heinrich Himmler in WW II for high tech weapons research (putting mini-cams on V2 rockets). After that, the Soviets controlled it (it is sits in what was East Germany, south of Berlin), and made it a propaganda center for party elite: Karl Marx High School. Needless to say, neither government was very good at designing stylish buildings. BBIS looks a lot like a brick Fort Casey! There are 6 buildings in a row, but only 3 have been renovated. BBIS just recently bought over 100 acres of land, mostly forest, surrounding the facility, and the long term plan is to make it a complex of school facilities. They already lease land nearby to a Waldorf School. A picture is attached.
The point is ... everything in this school echoes! It’s constantly noisy. And busy. But not in a way I have ever seen before. Students are relaxed, polite, friendly. They look like they are having a good time. Grade 12s (IB speak – grade 12, not seniors) mix with grades 1 and 2 at lunch.
The big advantage to a private international school is the class size – my biggest class is 14! Granted, I have 8 preps … but I don’t have a huge amount of paper grading … yet. The preps: --grades 8, 9, and 10 history (each for only 2 80-minute periods a week) --grade 11 International Baccalaureate – standard level and higher level (SL and HL meet together 4 hours a week, and then HL has 2 more hours of intensive study) --grade 12 I.B. – SL and HL --homeroom – one hour a week (very similar to FHS’s Transitions, but lots of discussion, and for all middle and high school students)
It’s a busy schedule, and I’m still trying to figure out who is studying what and when!
By the way – for Jenny Kubic, and other history teachers – teaching Single Party States (Stalin, Mussolini, Mao, Castro, etc) really is cool! And thank you, Jeff Reier (or whoever did) for cluing me about the movie “To Live.” The grade 12s love it, and it does such a great job of showing the Chinese civil war, Great Leap Forward, and Cultural Revolution. I love European history – and (for Seilo) I’m also throwing in history and ethics of journalism. After all, dictatorships can only work if they control the press.
Our grade 9s this year are a pretty squirrelly bunch, but the rest of my students are remarkably focused and understanding of new teachers. The grade 12s already treat me as if I had been there for some time – even though I have to keep asking, “What did you do last year?” They know that their whole post-secondary education hangs on doing well on the IB projects and exams, and the motivation and pressure level is pretty high. I think I’m going to love the grade 11 class, because they are just beginning the I.B. program, and I can mold them as I need – instead of inheriting them mid-program as I did the grade 12’s.
It’s is amazing to see what consistent parental involvement throughout the school does for the student motivation! (Of course, there are the problem parents, too – but I haven’t run into them … yet.)
One example of the kind of student I have is that the student council president, Aaron, is in IB history. His dad is the Bureau Chief for the Los Angeles Times in Berlin. Talk about a family that values education!
The internationalism here is spectacular – as it is at Nancy’s school. It is common at lunch to hear American, British, German, Swedish, Israeli, French, Australian, Russian, Chinese, Korean, and Japanese. In fact, my grade 8 class has more English Language Learners than native speakers. So we take the vocab slowly. In fact, two of my grade 12s are doing a major research project using Russian texts: we had to find out whether they should cite sources in Latin characters or Cyrillic. (Try to sort that one out, Susan Browne.)
The technology at my school is a bit mixed. (Seilo would go nuts!) We do attendance online, but only once a day, when homeroom meets for the first 10 minutes each morning. Grades don’t have to be posted at all until the end of the semester, but many teachers do it to let kids and parents know what’s up. Nothing like Grade Machine around (though it might be coming). We only have one computer lab which is also used for classes, so it’s not frequently available, but there are several good computers in the library. We do have large screen projectors (called “beamers”) and a few TV’s (that mostly play US as well as European formatted tapes and DVDs), but sometimes it’s a challenge finding them. Fortunately, I have “borrowed” the ESL TV cart, and they only use it occasionally.
Oh, and the library … it’s small to say the least. It’s about the size of the FHS office and student lounge. But the librarian encourages people to order books and other materials, and it will be moving in the next year or so. Friday there were at least 2 elementary school classes, a class of grade 12s, and various other students in the library at once. And the sound was just a nice hum of work. That stunned me. The librarian, a Brit named Annie (dunno her last name yet), apologized for the noise when I stopped by, and I told her it was pleasant – on-task children. A second-grader asked me to help her find a book about “Buddy” – didn’t know what that was, but it was fun looking until another second grader helped out and found it.
In a large nutshell, that’s school. I’ll be extremely busy with the class prep, but I’m delighted to be here.
And finally – just a couple of trivial tidbits: Nancy is in Dresden this weekend with some of her staff. JFK School has Labor day off since they are an “American” school. I went to the German History museum. It’s so comprehensive that I almost sprinted through for 2 hours, reading only the main narratives, not pausing for many details, and I still managed to see only from the 1500s to the beginning of WW I. It will take days to do it all. It’s reassuring to see how honestly and openly the museum displayed info about the Third Reich and the Holocaust (I did glance at it.)
Germans don’t smile much – very private. I’m learning to act that way. It’s nice to be able to go to school and smile at students and colleagues. But they always want to be sure you are happy. Interesting mix of behaviors. They are also extremely polite and rule-oriented. Even the drunks and panhandlers say “Excuse me (entschuldigung)” and “Thank you” – even if you don’t give them anything.
The public transport is amazing. I did a huge amount of Berlin today, all on buses and trains. And on many trains, buskers play music – flute, sax, guitar or accordion. And they are really good! (High unemployment here.) I actually got a little lost, but found a U Bahn (train) station within a couple of blocks, and I was oriented again. We now know we won’t need a car.
Our shipment from the states is scheduled to finally arrive on Wednesday the 6th. We sent it June 23rd! My 4 pairs of pants, 4 pair of sox, and 6 shirts were getting a little old.
Have a great start of the year … those who are teaching. And all our love to family and friends. Photos Here
Thursday, August 8, 2006 The flat is beginning to feel settled. We have a couch, bed and table with chairs. We have a place to get clean and storage for clothes. We have fixed the light fixtures so that they do not hang funny with wires poking out at all weird directions, and we have a garbage set up with recycling containers. Germany is very environmentally conscious (or is it that garbage collection is so expensive?) we sort clear and colored glass, plastic, paper and compost. Our washing machine is in the bathroom and is very convenient. We dry on a rack and in this warm weather our clothes dry in hours. In the winter we will have our drying rack in the living room! Our marketing is done with fabric bags and we tote items home daily. We are drinking bottled water and it is more expensive than beer! The beer is great. Nancy prefers dark and heavy beers or beer with a bitterness. David likes Pilsner, light and golden. The wine is cheap and delicious. Food choices are varied, many different ethnic restaurants and the markets have large assortments of meats, cheeses, juices and fruits and veggies. We will need to take German language classes, as we am not picking it up quickly. Nancy is getting braver in public in greeting people, but as of yet she really can only ask for the bill at a restaurant and say please and thank you. She says she has never been so quiet in her whole life! We are touring the city quite a bit, and we love the hustle of the city and the varied architecture. Berlin is a city of contrast between old and modern, refined and hip, conservative and outlandish. We like it. David took a walking tour of Jewish history in Berlin. And Saturday he takes a walking tour of Third Reich sites. Hitler’s bunker was filled with concrete by the Soviets, so there isn’t much to see there except a patch of grass. We will both be thrilled when our bikes arrive – around August 28. There is a steady stream of commuters past our flat, and our street runs right up to the city itself, only 7 miles away. In the mean time, we have gotten very good at using the public transit. The S Bahn, U Bahn and buses can get you anywhere in the city, almost faster than a car! Photos Here
Saturday, July 29 (Nancy says …) We are in our hotel room resting this morning. This is the first Saturday that David has NOT done the donut ride, because we are here in Berlin. David has a cold and he is resting and reading his history texts for his school. I am sorting out how we purchase a bed and get it to our new flat in Zehlendorf. We are used to doing everything on our own and here we need help, at least initially, to set up house. I have visions of a contemporary IKEA look for our flat but I also do not want to spend a lot of Euros. I have found several supermarkets that will be convenient, similar to the Co-op in Bellingham. I provide my own bags and we recycle all glass and plastic at the store for a credit. I will eventually get around on my bike, when our bikes arrive with our shipment, but for now walking and public transport are convenient. (David) We have the public transport figured out – mostly; we have been drinking Gerolsteiner, and watching the Floyd Landis coverage on CNN. Most of the Europeans we talk to say, “They all dope. What’s the surprise about Landis?” It’s discouraging to hear so much cynicism about cycling even over here. (David says…) We have been awed by how well everyone speaks German around here J - even babies speak better baby-talk German. Yesterday we went to KaDaWe, the largest department store in Europe. It was built during a time when East Germans came to west German to shop. It truly is enormous – It’s as big as Westlake Mall, but it’s one store. The bathrooms have 3 attendants each – and all of them are better qualified to clean bathrooms (toilets) than I am because they speak perfect German. We are glad we will be teaching, because we are not qualified to be toilet attendants. KaDaWe truly was astounding. 5-6 floors covering multiple city blocks and connected to other buildings via sky bridges. The fist floor (erdgeschoss) was all cosmetics, and the smell overwhelmed me at first. The 5th floor (what we would call the 6th floor) was the food section: acres of delicatessen and min-dining bars with sushi, pasta, Chinese, tapas, and others. An entire section devoted to caviar, and another was a live fish market. And beer and wine everywhere. This afternoon and tonight we will visit other teachers from David’s school. One is a German, the other is from New Mexico on her first overseas experience (with her 5-year-old son). It’ll be good to make friends. Today we saw the first few sets of hotshot riders. A group of 4 blew by us, chatting at 25 mph or so. You know the look: no fat, smooth pedaling, making it all look so easy. Bikes seem to get more respect here than pedestrians. In fact, a man we met from Amsterdam said that if a cyclist hits a pedestrian, it is considered the pedestrian’s fault. (But the ground still stings.) David’s bike doesn’t show up for a few more weeks, but I will be sooo ready when it arrives. Photos Here
July 24 It is Monday evening in Berlin.
We have arrived. But our luggage hasn’t. Probably Tuesday.
Zehlendorf and Kleinmachnow are as beautiful as we have heard – many parks and forest trails, fun little shopping, miles of designated bike paths, and endless streams of very comfortable-looking buses. The sidewalks are 8 feet wide – over half devoted to bicycle lane. Pedestrians dare not walk on the designated bike part which is red brick.
Cyclists everywhere, mostly on city cruisers with NO helmets. However, as we walked to dinner tonight, 5 old guys in full kit and paceline cruised by us. I wanted to jump right in. At least I know the groups are out there. Unfortunately, our bikes won’t arrive until end of August. The ship gets to England August 12. The drivers are pretty crazy, but they seem to respect the cyclists – mostly so they don’t dent their cars. We went on the autobahn as soon as we arrived, but it was rush hour, so the woman who picked us up could not properly show off her driving ability.
We were picked up at the airport by a woman from Nancy’s school who drove us past our apartment and her school. Then, after a shower, we walked a couple of miles to David’s school. All told, we’ve walked about 5 miles today … after 28 hours of no sleep. We’re not sure what universe we’re in right now, let alone what time zone. And it’s hot - probably 87 degrees with at least that much humidity. Supposed to stay that way through August. But we are learning to pace ourselves.
The hotel we are in is very comfortable, but it has no airconditioning. It’s a conference/tourist bus center, so there is plenty of activity. Google “NH Berlin/Potsdam” to see it. It’s called a tagungshotel – which means conference center.
We had dinner at a fun, outdoor German restaurant up the road: our first German wheat beer in Germany. The German people have been very gracious. If we make the effort to speak even a little German, they stretch what English they know to help out. They don’t smile at first, but they turn out to be very friendly.
Nancy keeps saying, "This all looks very European.” It took David a few times hearing it before I got it.
We’re sad, still, to be gone from our good friends, but we see this as our home for now, and we will settle in quickly once we are in our flat.
Internet access is not as easily available as I had hoped (it costs €8 for 2 hours at the hotel), so until we are settled in our flat, expect emails to be infrequent.
David and Nancy
... recently arrived in Berlin Photos Here
June 22 Dateline June 22. Tomorrow, June 23, the shipping company comes to take nearly everything we plan to live on for the next 2 years, pack it all in a large crate, and send it by ship to Europe. It’s 40 days and 40 nights on the ocean and in customs. Sort of Biblical, isn’t it. Nancy and I are exhausted, but this is a major transition in the whole process. Now we spend the next month living off of the things we decided we didn’t really need. We’ve lived in this house for 30 years and 1 month. A sign that we are really going is that the bikes are packed – along with my best tools and trainer. Both of our schools have been in steady contact with us. They are offering tremendous support. The principal of BBIS called at 5:15 a.m. last Friday to see if I had any last minute concerns or questions. He said, “Since this is your first posting overseas, remember that it will be nothing like any other teaching experience you have ever had. Stay flexible.” July 23 is lift off.We hope to see as many friends as we can in the next month. In many ways this all seems a bit surreal. We want to be 100% here to enjoy our lives, but we also have to keep dreaming of what will be so that the motivation stays up to get through the packing. To cap all the surrealism, last week in Nancy’s classroom a raccoon poked its head through a hole in the ceiling. It apparently lives in between the first and second floor of Whatcom Middle School, and was curious about the people who were intruding.
June 3, 2006 It is with mixed feelings of excitement, trepidation, and pre-homesickness that Nancy and I announce our departure from the Northwest for 2 years. We will be teaching in Berlin, Germany (she at a magnet public school, me at a private international school). Ever since I got my teaching certificate, over 18 years ago, we have dreamed of taking this adventure. Now the time has come. It began in November, when we filed applications through the Council of International Schools in London. After being accepted to take the next step, we attended a recruiting fair in Vancouver, BC, in mid-February. There we were offered positions in Suzhou, China; Sophia, Bulgaria; and Berlin. All three schools were very tempting, but Berlin offers the great location as well as high academics. We have contracts for 2 years, but we don’t know what we will do after that – continue overseas, return to B’ham, or move to Seattle to be near children. I want to start by thanking everyone – especially in the bike community - who has supported us in this change. You are a great group of people, and it’s been a privilege to ride with you. I’m taking 2 bikes there (Nancy is taking hers also), and looking for races. So keep reading this web site to see how we progress in teaching, traveling, and riding. We leave July 23, so I look forward to riding with you until then. Aufwiedersehen. |